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he was angry and confused - this wasnt what he had prayed for.
Scotts experience fits in here. He was a workaholic too busy
for his two sons. He always had excuses, and was hard on his sons. A
tough disciplinarian, he tried to raise them the way his army father
had raised him. One day he lost his job, became unemployed, and was
even tougher on the kids. His wife suggested they pray, and she found
a part time job. Now he was angry and confused - this wasnt
what he had prayed for.
Then the family talked him into
coming to LSA ... There, during the blessing of the water, he thought
of how his grandmother always had time for him, became aware how he
was not like her, and too busy for his boys. He decided to take more
time for them.
Then, he heard a homily on the two
sides of love (discipline and affection) in which the presider asked
the parents when they had last told their children that they loved
them. He realized he had never done that, and resolved to do it right
there and then, at LSA, in their tent that night during a family
meeting. He apologized to his family for his mistakes and asked their
forgiveness. His kids were blown away, hugged him and cried. He went
away from LSA a changed man, a pilgrim of the heart. He spent the
rest of the summer doing things together with his wife and kids and
they developed into a close family over the years. Read
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The Joy of Doing Gods
Will These readings remind me of my late brother
Louis who died of cancer in January of 2009 after
a valiant four year battle. He was a quiet self-effacing man who
lived in the farming countryside near the now extinct hamlet of
Highgate Siding. His many virtues shine forth now, to those who knew
him as much as when he was alive. He was honest to a fault, sometimes
costing him financially. He had a keen sense of justice and fairness
in his business dealings. His gentleness made him a beatitude person.
He loved his wife and family passionately, and cared deeply for the
less fortunate.
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Do you hear what I hear: It
seems an elderly gentleman had serious hearing problems for a number
of years. He went to the doctor and the doctor was able to have
him fitted for a set of hearing aids that allowed the gentleman to
hear 100%. The elderly gentleman went back for a checkup
a month later and the doctor said, Your hearing is
perfect. Your family must be really pleased that you can hear
again. To which the gentleman replied, Oh, I havent
told my family yet. I just sit around and listen to the conversations
and Ive changed my will three times already! Read
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And then it happened: I
experienced a taste of this inner transformative power of the Spirit
through prayer one day as a young priest in Beauval. It was Friday of
a busy week, and I had just learned that a busload of grade eleven
students from the Convent in North Battleford was coming up for a
sports event and they wanted the local parish to help organize their
stay. I felt a bit overwhelmed with everything on my plate but
decided to be faithful to my hour of prayer despite all that there
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Delusions of Grandeur
A wife heard her husband come back into the house not too long after
he had left. She said, Hon, I thought you were going to your
lodge meeting. It was postponed, He replied,
The wife of the Grand Exalted Invincible Supreme Potentate
wouldn't let him attend tonight. Live in the Kingdom of
God through humble service.
Shining
Like Stars We know that no human effort or
sacrifice can take away sin or pain. Jesus own sacrifice for
all time took away sin, perfected us and brought about forgiveness.
Our response must be to place our sin and sinfulness at his feet, to
receive his forgiveness and healing, to become holy, single-minded in
his service, free from sin and addiction, and to live in his glory.
Someone who had a very positive
influence on my life is Archbishop Emeritus Adam Exner, former bishop
of Kamloops, Winnipeg and finally Vancouver before he retired. As a
spiritual director in Battleford, he had a constant stream of people
coming to him for advice. As my spiritual director, he was the first
one to hear my story, discern my need to work on my relationship with
a member of my family, and suggested that I spend a month praying
only with Isaiah 43:1-7, words that I dearly needed to hear at that
stage of my life. At certain times later on in my ministry,
especially in moments of personal crisis, he would listen to me and
invariably come up with precisely the words that I needed to hear at
that time. Would that we could all be as positive an influence on
others as he was to so many. Read
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The
youth can lead the way. Many
years ago, a volunteer at Stanford Hospital in the States got to
know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and
serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood
transfusion from her 5 year old brother, who had miraculously
survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to
combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her
little brother, and asked the boy if he would be willing to give his
blood to his sister. The volunteer saw him hesitate for only a moment
before taking a deep breath and saying, Yes, Ill do it
if it will save Liz. As the transfusion progressed, he lay
in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color
returning to her cheeks. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.
He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, Will
I start to die right away? Being
so young, the boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was
going to have to give his sister all of his blood. Read
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Giving of your life: The
saintly Mother Theresa of Calcutta is an example of one who lived a
selfless life to the full. She would even go to where abortions were
being performed in India to try to dissuade women from going through
with the procedure, offering to look after the unborn child herself,
no matter what the cost. That is genuine discipleship.
In one of our communities recently,
I met a young couple named Eric and Velma. Velma had been in an
accident nine years earlier and was now a paraplegic in a wheel
chair, able only to move her head and to talk. Eric had brought her
to church, and then to the reception after confirmation. I marveled
at how attentive he was to her, and how he was quietly feeding her
like a child as he ate his own meal. In my conversation with them I
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It was not an expense, it was an investment:
Every night he would call his wife Donna long distance to talk about
their day. One day I commented to him that this practice of
calling long distance everyday must get to be expensive. He replied
very simply that it was not an expense, it was an investment. I was
impressed by the conviction in his voice as he said that, and
marveled at the wisdom his response showed.
Freedom to Serve: I think of
a university student in Saskatoon who remained silent when a fellow
student unfairly criticized the Church in a class and how angry he
was at himself for his lack of courage to speak up for truth. On the
other hand, I think of a friend who had the courage to tell his
brother they were leaving a stag party when a stripper was brought in
to entertain the gathering. That was a courageous and righteous act
and I was proud my friend for his courage to speak up and act.
The boss has has delusions of adequacy
What's it like to be your own boss?
A businessman was asked. I don't know, he replied.
The police wont let me park in front of my office. Tax
collectors tell me how to keep my books. My bank manager tells me how
much of a bank balance I have to maintain. Freight agents tell me how
my goods must be packed. Customers tell me how my goods must be made
and what the price should be. The union tells me whom I can employ
and how and when I can employ them. And now I just got
married." Read
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Religion From The Heart
I could identify with the frustration Jesus feels in todays
gospel, as he has a run-in with the religious authorities who could
only see life through the lens of human tradition and man-made rules.
We are invited today to live a religion from the heart that puts
compassion before regulations.
"TRANSFORMATIVE
Faith" Thomas Keating,
renowned monk and spiritual writer, claims that we have it all upside
down. Many people in our society have a notion of God that comes from
their childhood training, leaving them with a God who is judgmental,
strict, demanding, distant and aloof, and whose love must be earned.
The reality is just the opposite God is almost too present to
us, in so many ordinary ways, that we miss it and seek him in the
sensational or the extra-ordinary. .......
Jesus in the gospels is challenging
the Jews to move beyond their limited notion of God to faith in
Him as the only one who can reveal to them the true nature of the
Father. He calls them to faith in him as Son of God, as the one who
has seen the Father, as the source of eternal life, the one who can
share with them the Fathers very being. Read
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Fully Human and
Alive An ancient philosopher once wrote, The
unexamined life is not worth living. Someone else once quipped,
The unlived life is not worth examining. St. Iraneus took
this further with famous quote: The glory of God is man and
woman fully alive. Read
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Hungering
for Justice; Thirsting for Love One night on television, a
news item featured the reality of children starving in Zimbabwe.
Pictures of children with extended stomachs troubled the viewers. A
few minutes later, another news item dwelt on the problem of obesity
among youth in North America. Not surprisingly, the program stated
the medical concern that obese children were more prone to heart attacks.
The readings today address both
issues with the clear message: we must share our wealth to combat
poverty, and learn to love our children again to combat rampant
social problems among our youth.
The multiplication of the loaves by
Jesus in the gospel was a direct response to the physical hunger of
the people before him. Of course, there was a much deeper spiritual
level to this miracle, but he first fulfilled the physical hunger of
the people. So must we if we are to call ourselves his followers.
Called To Be Prophets.
Richard Rohr, another modern day prophet, shares this insight into
being prophetic: There are two ways of being a prophet. One is
to tell the enslaved that they can be free. It is the difficult path
of Moses. The second is to tell those who think they are free that
they are in fact enslaved. This is the even more difficult path of Jesus.
I had
never prayed with my emotions like this before in my life.
The emotional storm raged within me for an hour. On the one side,
waves of fear, anxiety and depression would wash over me, pressing
down on my spirit and pounding away at me like the surf against the
shore. Then I would read and ponder the words of that passage again
and from the other side, waves of faith and hope and confidence would
wash over me, buoying
me up and floating me effortlessly along. Back and forth I was
tossed like a small craft in the sea. Little by little, however, the
rudder of faith and the waves of hope began to gain the upper hand.
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Let the Light Shine
A group of tourists were visiting a huge cathedral. A little
girl in the group stopped, in contemplative silence, to look at the
beautiful huge stained glass windows. The afternoon sun was shining
brightly, bathing the group in a splendid symphony of gorgeous
colors. After some time, as the group was about to leave, the
little girl asked the guide, Who are those persons in those
beautiful windows? The guide told her that they were the
saints. That evening, as the little girl prepared for bed, she told
her mom that she knew who the saints were. Well, who are
they? her mother wanted to know. Saints are persons
who let the light shine through them! was her innocent reply.
A child's wisdom: A young
boy with a handicap was making his first communion. After the
Eucharist, there was a family gathering. The uncle, who was also the
childs godparent, told the mother, What a beautiful
liturgy; how sad that he didnt understand a thing.
The child heard these words and his
eyes filled with tears. He said to his mother, Dont
worry, Mom, Jesus loves me just as I am.
The child had a wisdom that this uncle didnt yet attain, that
the Eucharist is a gift from God par excellence. That child is a
witness that the handicapped person, sometimes very seriously
handicapped, finds life, strength and consolation in and through
communion with Jesus in the Eucharist. And Jean asks, is there not a
cry for communion with Jesus in the Eucharist in the desire of all
people for a communion of hearts?
The Eucharist is Gods effort
to covenant with us, to live among us, to love us, to invite us into
communion with the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Sometimes it
is the least and the lowly who understand this best. More...
The
Commandments To Love The Returning To Spirit program
that has been spreading across western Canada is an example of a
movement that is based on love. It teaches participants to deal with
their past hurts rather than build up big stories around those wounds
and carry anger through life. They learn ways to address their issues
and then communicate their hurt to others with love as a way of
letting go and moving on with their lives. More...
Shepherds of the Heart Jean
Vanier, in his latest book Becoming Human, shares his personal
transition in his notion of love. He used to think that love involved
being good, being efficient, using ones intelligence and time
well and doing things for others. Then he chose to live with
the mentally challenged and found he was challenged to live his life
on a whole different level. The mentally challenged werent
impressed at all by his competence; they did not care about his
degrees. They just wanted his love, his affection, his attention,
they wanted to know him. They taught him the
importance of relating from the heart. And that has made all the
difference in his life. He now goes around the world teaching
that wisdom.
I am convinced that the deepest
need of our youth, indeed, of every human being, is to be loved, to
belong and to be valued. If these needs are met by loving parents,
supportive nuclear and extended families and welcoming churches, then
our youth wont need to resort to drugs to feel loved, to gangs
to feel that they belong, or to indulge in pre-marital sex to feel valued.
In The Holy Longing, Ron
Rolheiser OMI wrote a moving dedication to Henri Nouwen that best
captures Nouwen's 'imperfect' influence upon so many: "By
sharing his own struggles, he mentored us all, helping us to pray
while not knowing how to pray, to rest while feeling restless, to be
at peace while tempted, to feel safe while still anxious, to be
surrounded by a cloud of light while still in darkness, and to love
while still in doubt. Nouwen embraced his crosses, carried them and
allowed them to lead him to Jesus." His close friend Robert
Jonas reminds us that "his ever-present accompanying shadow was
there only because of the Light in which he walked." More...
"Spring Cleaning of the
Soul" After the long months of snow and cold, many people
can't wait to clean up the residue of winter - to house clean with
doors open; to rake the yard, clean out garages, start preparing the
soil for the garden, and burn all that needs to be burned. One can
almost smell the smells of spring.
Spring is also a privileged time to
do some spring cleaning of the soul. Lent call us to not just clean
up around us, but also to do some cleansing, healing work within us,
some soul work.
Walk the talk:
Nelson Mandela is an example of that kind of authority and
integrity. He was imprisoned unjustly in South Africa for twenty
fives years because of his struggle against apartheid. Yet upon his
release, he more than any other person spoke of the need for
forgiveness and power sharing with the very white people who
imprisoned him. When he speaks of forgiveness and reconciliation,
people listen to what he has to say because he has lived it
firsthand. He has that kind of moral authority that commands
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"Our
deepest fear is not that we are inadequate;
our
deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure....
As we are
liberated from our own fear,
our
presence automatically liberates others."
--Nelson
Mandela quoting Marianne Williamson
(author of "Return to
Love") in his inaugural address
Vacation is Good! A pastor
was getting ready to go on vacation. He had a few parting words for
the congregation: Every pastor should take a month of vacation
every year. If the pastor is really good at his work, then that
pastor needs a vacation. If the pastor is not really good at it, then
the congregation needs a break! More...
"Christmas in the Light of Easter"
Tonight, Christmas eve, we listen to St. Luke's wonderful account of
Jesus' birth. Luke puts into his version of this time-honoured story
very significant details that make it a catechesis leading us to a
more mature faith. St. Luke meditates on the events of Christ's birth
in the light of his whole life, death and resurrection and the
sending of his Spirit at Pentecost, the birthday of the
Church. St. Luke already perceives in this child whose
birth he writes about, the Messiah, Son of God and Risen Lord. For
him, we cannot really separate Christmas from Easter. In the end, he
invites us to celebrate Christmas in the light of Easter.
For St. Luke, the story of the Lord's birth is the entire Gospel in
miniature. Parallels and connections between the beginning and the
end of Jesus' life show that the seed of his mission as Saviour was
already within him at the time of his birth. The faith of the early
Church in Christ can teach us much about the Historical Jesus. Let us
explore the story and learn from Luke, master story teller and
evangelist. More...
According to Flor McCarthy in his
commentary on this gospel, one of our greatest
needs is the need to express ourselves. Unless we express
ourselves, we cannot realize or fulfill ourselves. To express ones
self is the way to make ones self whole and therefore holy.
Expression is the opposite of repression. To repress is to bottle up;
to stifle; to smother, to suppress. Repression inevitably gives rise
to depression. On the other hand, to express is to articulate, to
reveal, to bring out. Expression may involve pain, but ultimately it
leads to joy.
John Powell, in his book
Unconditional Love, tells the story of a young man who was dying of
cancer. In the final stages of his illness, he came to see Powell and
told him that in class months earlier he had mentioned something that
made it easier for him to die young. Powell had said that there were
two tragedies in life, and dying young isn't one of them. The two
tragedies are to go through life and not love, and to go through life
and not tell those whom you love, that you love them. The young man
went on to say that when told of his illness, he realized how much he
had been loved and was able to tell his family and others how much
they meant to him and how much he loved them. Now when he is asked
what it is like dying at age 24, he replies that it is not as bad as
being 50 with no values and never having loved.
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Control:
When he handed me what he had written, I read the words, "At the
meeting today at the hospital, I felt like they would do what you
want no matter what I said." Ouch - it seems that without even
realizing it, I was giving to others the impression that I was in
charge here, even though we were trying to co-pastor. That was the
first time in my life that I became aware of my tendency to want
power and control, and how it was affecting a brother Oblate. More...
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